Thursday, February 26, 2009

Happy Ash Wednesday!

To further reinforce the depressed mood everyone is in of late (with the added pain of a 5% salary cut), Lent is suddenly dumped upon us.

Went to Ash Wednesday bilingual mass (only the sermon) at St John Bosco.
I was happily singing in Chinese until the part where it goes, Lord grant me peace or, 主赐我平安. Unfortunately I sang it as 主踢我平安 or, Lord kick me into peace. You will not believe how much restraint it took, not bursting into laughter in a very solemn mass.
After mass, I took a bus home, stopping by the nearby 7-11 to buy milk. I forgot that I did not clean off the ash cross mark on my forehead. And the Vietnamese priest drew me an ultra thick and black one for added effect. Great, all of Taipei now knows what Catholics do during Ash Wednesday mass.

Monday, February 23, 2009

Buzz

I visit Maggie's new place, it's way out in Hsindian (south Taipei) plus it's on top of a hill. Yeah, it took forever to get there, but it's really nice once you get into her estate. It's brand new 3 storey houses (yeah, landed property in Taipei). And gives you an awesome view of the nearby mountain range. Simply breathtaking. Her house is very nicely done up too.

We had some BBQ, then Emily & I left early to meet up with Ghee Hwee for KTV. The taxi ride back into the city district costs us 500NT. (Indicator of distance!)

KTV started out really fun. Cos there's only 3 of us singing, it was nice wholesome fun. Emily sang some Taiwanese songs (Taiyu), we did some rock numbers, it was hilarious. Then someone suggested alcohol.. We thought GaoLiang sounds interesting, plus we giggled at the listing "Yushan Gaoliang Chiewh".. chiewh is wine literally spelt.

So we ordered that. And we toasted the first glass to each other. And Emily & I were drunk.

Somehow Ghee Hwee single-handedly got us both home. Emily was worse off, she was sleeping on the couch and we had to walk her up 5 floors to her apartment.

It's all the blasted 5% paycut.... (easy excuse for all our sins).

Gaoliang incidentally is 38 to 63 percent alcohol content. My personal advice, do not ganbei with it.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Let the bad times begin

1 week ahead of Lent, we were informed of a 5% paycut for all HP employees. Boo!

Considering that our increments are like, 1 or 2% annually, 5% takes me back a couple of years. Double Boo!

Just last weekend, I went to Iris' new place for a housewarming party. It was nice, brand new building, 10mins walk to Ximenting, overall almost 40pings. You know, it made me want a new apartment. Even though I did at one point in time own a new apartment, I never had the experience of furnishing it, living in it. I was toying with the idea of moving. Seeing how I am in a rental place anyways, I could always move to a nicer place, today's economic climate it's possible to find a brand new apartment for roughly what I pay today in rent.

But with that 5% pay cut, perhaps I should be more prudent. Triple Boo!

Monday, February 16, 2009

Spring time!

Strangely it got warm a little earlier this year. It got as warm as 28degrees on Friday! The flowers - cherry blossoms in particular, are starting to bloom!

Here're some pictures on my walk in to work of the gorgeous cherry blossoms,










Not all the trees/flowers bloom though, some still think it's winter,
Spent the weekend putting away winter clothes, removing my heating blanket and washing it all.
The Chinese New Year latern festival is held at the Sunyatsen Memorial Hall, GH & I wandered through the park after work on Friday night. I remember last year (my 1st time), it was cold, crowded and I was really impressed with the displays. This year, it kinda lacked atmosphere.. or I'm just getting jaded, or I'm really rueing the fact that I have no camera to take pictures with cos some thief (my handbag was stolen in early Jan at the Sheraton Taipei hotel) is happily using it. Here's my 1 picture of the night - it had Singapore in it!
Please excuse me while I practise my forgiveness exercise again... ommm!

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Back in Taipei

Back at Taipei.

Had to reapply for new phone SIM card, new ATM card, everything was froze after my handbag was stolen just before going back to Singapore. Now I have to reinstate stuff. Tedious, plus costly as everyone wanted a replacement fee. It sux.

Today's Thu and I've hit the gym once, the rockgym once, and 1 super-duper heavenly massage. Quite proud of my self discipline.. for now.

Last week I was gushing to my best friends about Wall-E being the best movie of 2008 - IMHO. And he commented that it's cos I'm lonely so I can relate to Wall-E (the sole robot left on Earth). Now that I'm back in Taipei, and back to er.. being lonely, just sets me thinking....

Hello God?

Thursday, February 05, 2009

The Cheng Dinner

It occured to me that I have never taken my beloved aunties out for a good meal before... After Bay-Deh (eldest uncle)'s recent death, it is good to seize the day, never know what tomorrow holds. So, we all had dinner last night at Imperial Treasure Teochew restaurant in Ngee Ann City.

It was a great meal and set me back $650, averaging out to $66 per pax! Ouch! In Michelle's words, 'you had gold in your meal'? No, no gold, just a good expensive meal with the Chengs.

New running shoes

I bought a new pair of runners, Asics Nimbus to replace the Saucony pair that I've had from 2005. Perhaps this'll help me run faster... (or so I think)


The one about being home and being Singaporean

I'm starting to get what Steph meant when she said it's hard to blog when FaceBook basically says it all...

But at least blogging, you get to tell long story :)

Being back week 2 in Singapore, I slowly start to re-emerge as myself. Yeah, initially I felt kinda lost, out of place. When Ian/Michelle took me to breakfast at Dempsey, I remember thinking, wow, this place is great. It felt like Australia. When the hardcores ask me to do various climbs, I remember thinking, wow these guys climbing really hard stuff these days!

Now I feel I'm back. My Singlish is good again (hee hee). And I'm starting to climb hard again...

Me climbing outdoors at Volleyball Court (KL, Malaysia)
Me climbing indoors at Camp 5 (KL, Malaysia)


Sunday, January 25, 2009

Attending mass back in Sunny Singapore

1st Sunday back and we chose to go to St Mary of the Angels where Pa's niche rests, plus they have 12.30pm mass which helps Ian/Michelle a lot - 2 sleepy heads.

After we lit our tea-lights for Pa and saying a short prayer, while walking out, we saw a new niche to the other side of Pa's. It's Lo Hwei Yen - Singapore's 1st terrorist victim who was murdered in Mumbai, India. It was kinda sad as she had 2 chocolate squares + a very long stem lily lovingly stuck around her niche - probably by her grieving husband.

St Mary of the Angels' columbariam has some pretty famous people in it :)

Afterwards, we headed for Adam Road hawker where I had nasi-lemak, satay, kuih lopez... BURP!

Being RC

I was being RC all day Saturday.

Rock Climber - climbing with the old gang is hard work!

Roman Catholic - going for Novena after climbing just like old times...

Nice being back.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Home for the Chinese New Year holidays

I thought I was prepared this time around. I shopped early, got my gifts for family early, dragged luggage out and put stuff inside early...

Then life threw me a spanner, at our year end party at the Sheraton Taipei no less, my handbag was stolen from my chair. All of us had our bags on our chairs. My bag was still there as I was snapping pictures of my colleagues. Last I saw my bag, I'd put my camera back into my bag just before going on stage to pick up our prize (marketing team performed a little song+skit as part of the celebrations). And during that half hour of madness when we were celebrating our win, my bag was snitched. Within it, my wallet, digital camera, mobile phone and house keys.

Thankfully it was Emily again (from the Citibank/Alexander gym fiasco) who started demanding/yelling at the hotel staff before an official search was done. We did everything we could, searched the ballroom, searched employee lockers, reviewed their very poor quality grainy security surveilance cameras, finally lodging a police report at close to midnight. Finally calling a 24hour locksmith to break into my home and to change my locks.

Grateful to Emily for taking charge, GH for being with me through it all until almost 2am after the locksmith changed my locks, Jason my realtor who drove by at midnight to see if he had backup keys to my building main door (he did!), Rae (furiously surfed the web for 24hr locksmiths), & the EWC committee who were most sympathetic and kept checking back for news from Sheraton.

Actually the whole department sympathetic. People see me and ask me with concern in their tone if I've recovered my bag yet. Senior management came by to express their regrets etc. Taipei is really safe, where everyone leaves their bags unattended (not the wisest perhaps, but it's done all the time), perhaps there's still hope. Please pray with me.

Yeah, my current team is making a lot of difference - everyone's nice. Guess that's the silver lining in this whole icky mess.

I'll be home later tonight and it's going to be 2 weeks of fun & games. As a friend once told me, it's going to be 'sports day' everyday! Yay1

Friday, January 16, 2009

Moaning during a massage

** think straight - massage as in the swedish (or rather taiwanese) type **

Question - is it socially acceptable to moan over a massage?

Emily does this all the time - she says it validates a masseur's skill. Hmmm... We occasionally rub each other's shoulders and I used to cringe each time she moans on me, I'd freeze up for a bit.

No, I have not started to do the same yet - although sometimes I am really tempted to ;)
Anyhow since I like my massages bone-crunchingly hard, usually I want to scream in pain rather than moan. The typical Chinese pressure point massages are what I'd prefer and I found a new joint at the end of the street, 10mins walk from home. Just the right place to take guests after a long plane ride, anti-DVT exercise.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Sporting exploits in winter

In my earlier exploits, I have discovered that going up a mountain in a scooter over winter can be bone-numbingly cold. Next discovery was scuba-diving in winter. Which was freezing despite my new 5mm wetsuit plus gore-tex jacket to block the wind after you surface.

Today I would like to add a new lesson - rockclimbing in winter.
Yes, I climbed outdoors last night, it was 6 degrees and windy. Honda 'jio' me out of blue to go to 内湖 to lead scary climbs. Since I had climb gear + rope here in the office, off we went.

How cold was it? I climbed with my polartec fleece on and midway through, my fingers were numb and icy! Ok ok, partly from fear! Ultra scary for me cos I haven't been climbing regularly not to mention leading!
I led the leftmost lane - the purple route. And no, I did not complete. Attempted 3x and fail just shy of the last overhang.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Thank you God for this day!

The whole week has been cold & dreary... Last night was the coldest all winter - 6 degrees in Taipei and it registered 14 degrees inside my apartment. Brr...

This morning I woke up to sunny skies. Bought my usual rose latte (see pic of empty cup). It's fantastic to walk in and they already know what I want. I just wordlessly nod and pay $. Sigh.. if only Singapore has half the service levels of Taipei.

Walking to work, feeling the warmth of the sun against the cool air of winter, with Jay Chou playing in my iPOD, sipping my rose latte... It's one of those days you feel Taiwan is a great place.

After Jay Chou's rapping, I switched to play P&W songs and really really felt God's everlasting faithful love. Thank you Jesus!

Friday, January 09, 2009

Nice start to 2009!


Guess what, I won a place to run in the Boston Marathon! Wowee...
I was so excited I really wanted to go.
Then 2 days later, it hit me that I didn't really want to run another full marathon. I don't enjoy running ALL that much! I like the idea of running to keep slim and fit and blah blah...
Guess in April, I'm free to still try to see Tibet.

Nontheless, it's nice to win, and this early into the year.
Thanks Jesus, I appreciate the vote of confidence.


Monday, January 05, 2009

Happy New Year!

Right after the countdown, Ah Guang picked me up to go to Green Island for a dive with the hammerheads. When the waters off Green Island are cold, the hammerheads circle. Alas there were no hammerheads, there were plenty of cold and puking - the winds were like typhoon levels, the temperature was 17degrees, the waves were rolling in so hard it was all frothy white.

I had a lot of time to lie in bed in between diving/freezing - mostly I slept, but half the time I lay there thinking of new year hopes, dreams and of God. My biggest hope & dream for 2008 was obviously marriage - and my internal struggle in coming to terms with the idea of possibly being alone rest of my life. This slowly led to doubt, whether God really loves me. I know I know, He loved me to death and all, I know that all.. but still...

And early this morning, 1st day at work in 2009, I read my usual blog updates including Father Aloysious' http://www.alongcorner.blogspot.com/ and his new year entry had this bible passage,
For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Rom 8: 38 - 39)

To the depressed/melancholy/unhappy in the new year, chin up, our Lord loves us.

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

New Year Resolutions

Today is December 30. I am sitting in a half-empty office, 0 emails in my inbox and pretty much bored out of my mind. Why aren't I on leave? It's rainy outside, and besides really I have nowhere to go... Which doesn't quite sound like me - I always have a plan/a thing to do/a place to check out right? Well...

Ecclesiastes Chapter 1:2
Vanity of vanities, says Qoheleth, vanity of vanities! All things are vanity!
What profit has man from all the labor which he toils at under the sun?
One generation passes and another comes, but the world forever stays. The sun rises and the sun goes down; then it presses on to the place where it rises. Blowing now toward the south, then toward the north, the wind turns again and again, resuming its rounds. All rivers go to the sea, yet never does the sea become full.
To the place where they go, the rivers keep on going. What has been, that will be; what has been done, that will be done.
Nothing is new under the sun.
I have seen all things that are done under the sun, and behold, all is vanity and a chase after wind.


Reading from yesterday - the 5th Octave of Christmas. 1 John Chapter 2:9
Whoever says he is in the light,yet hates his brother, is still in the darkness.
Whoever loves his brother remains in the light,and there is nothing in him to cause a fall.
Whoever hates his brother is in darkness;
he walks in darkness and does not know where he is going because the darkness has blinded his eyes.

This year in 2008, I was ambitious and had my sights on a lot : explore Taiwan, work at my new job, make new friends etc. But somewhere down the line, things somehow got so out of control. Felt like chasing a wind, the harder I tried to wrest control, the worse things became. And it all is really very simple - it's all about love. As John said it - if you love your brother, you walk in the light, and there nothing to cause a fall.

I know I always say I don't regret, but I do. In relationships with a few people e.g. squealing on Sharon to the boss, losing patience with Kuansie... On reflection, if I used a heart of love, would I have done things differently? And what do you do in the aftermath?

I think I've said this before years ago, that relationships will be my downfall. And it remains my biggest cross. So my 2009 new year resolution will be very very short, just 2 actually,
1. learning to truly love
2. discipline (with faith and with myself).

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Christmas 2008 Break

I wish everyone a blessed Christmas season filled with Christ.

This year I skipped the midnight mass and went to Christmas Day mass instead. Instead I had Christmas dinner with Ghee Hwee & Eve. As usual, Ms Tan's culinary skills are excellent.

Christmas is such a non-event in Taiwan - Christmas Day mass as a small affair in the chapel filled with a few people, mostly foreigners and their small families - kids and all. So different from what I've used to. I know, the reason for the season is the Christ, but still there is a marked difference in the atmosphere. Would be nicer if it were grander so that the non-Christians, the lapsed Christians can be made aware of the significance of this day - the celebration of the greatest salvivic act of all time.

HP is shutdown over 25 and 26 Dec, so on Boxing Day, Emily took me and GH & Eve to 桃園 (Taoyuan) on Boxing Day. We took the bus in, dropped by her place - it was grand! She picked up her car and then we did a bit of a tour, driving to 石門水庫 and then 慈湖. Now 慈湖 is this lake where Chiang Kai Shek's mausoleum is. The original plan was to wait out reunification with China then bury him beside his mother. But as things are today, they decided to bury him somewhere in Taiwan but the DPP government started quibbling over details... So yeah, that's pretty much the state of affairs in Taiwan.


http://www.flickr.com/photos/8062670@N07/sets/72157611769410670/
Emily's pix - http://picasaweb.google.com/ycemilylai/Dashi2008Xmas#

On Saturday, 27 Dec, we did a little hike at 富陽公園. Had planned this some time ago and I was glad to finally get up into the mountains. It wasn't difficult and we made up 福州山and the nearby中埔山東峰. Both peaks offered fantastic views of Taipei city including the iconic Taipei 101. We were blessed to meet a Mr Yang - actually we were only asking for directions to the top, and he offered to walk us up. Along the way we chatted about Taiwan political state of affairs (same view of how the DPP quibbles too much for the good of Taiwan). And he also provided a little history of the place. Apparently, the mountain we were on used to be temporary graves awaiting reburial in China. They bury 1st, and when the ships arrive, the graves are dug up and then shipped back for burial on Chinese soil. A little creepy but consistent as the Mucha mountains nearby are dotted with graves that remain til today.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/8062670@N07/sets/72157611720869489/

Today is the feast of The Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph. And I overslept! Gasp! Had to go to the farther church in Little Manila for the 12noon mass. It was in Tagalog, hang on it gets worse, it was also a wedding mass. Great. The Lord has a sense of humour...

I especially like the gospel of today - Col 3:12 Brothers and sisters: Put on, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved,heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience,bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if one has a grievance against another; as the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do.And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection.And let the peace of Christ control your hearts, the peace into which you were also called in one body.And be thankful.

And the good thing is that the church is 10mins walk from the Taipei Fine Arts Museum. And the reason why I know this is because I ran down this road last Sunday as part of the 21k route for the ING Marathon. So after mass, I acquired a little culture with the local modern arts scene.

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Science and Faith - they are mutually consistent

I had my reservations earlier when they picked Pope Benedict, but hey, this guy rocks. He has the gumption to stand up against the world for his faith - I salute him.

Good heavens: Vatican rehabilitating Galileo
The Associated Press
Tuesday, December 23, 2008

VATICAN CITY: Galileo Galilei is going from heretic to hero.

The Vatican is recasting the most famous victim of its Inquisition as a man of faith, just in time for the 400th anniversary of Galileo's telescope and the U.N.-designated International Year of Astronomy next year.

Pope Benedict XVI paid tribute to the Italian astronomer and physicist Sunday, saying he and other scientists had helped the faithful better understand and "contemplate with gratitude the Lord's works."

In May, several Vatican officials will participate in an international conference to re-examine the Galileo affair, and top Vatican officials are now saying Galileo should be named the "patron" of the dialogue between faith and reason.

It's quite a reversal of fortune for Galileo Galilei (1564-1642), who made the first complete astronomical telescope and used it to gather evidence that the Earth revolved around the sun. Church teaching at the time placed Earth at the center of the universe.

The church denounced Galileo's theory as dangerous to the faith, but Galileo defied its warnings. Tried as a heretic in 1633 and forced to recant, he was sentenced to life imprisonment, later changed to house arrest.

The Church has for years been striving to shed its reputation for being hostile to science, in part by producing top-notch research out of its own telescope.

In 1992, Pope John Paul II declared that the ruling against Galileo was an error resulting from "tragic mutual incomprehension."

But that apparently wasn't enough. In January, Benedict canceled a speech at Rome's La Sapienza University after a group of professors, citing the Galileo episode and depicting Benedict as a religious figure opposed to science, argued that he shouldn't speak at a public university.
The Galileo anniversary appears to be giving the Vatican new impetus to put the matter to rest. In doing so, Vatican officials are stressing Galileo's faith as well as his science, to show the two are not mutually exclusive.

At a Vatican conference last month entitled "Science 400 Years after Galileo Galilei," the Vatican No. 2, Cardinal Tarcisio Bertone, said Galileo was an astronomer, but one who "lovingly cultivated his faith and his profound religious conviction."

"Galileo Galilei was a man of faith who saw nature as a book authored by God," Bertone said.
The head of the Vatican's Pontifical Council for Culture, which co-sponsored the conference, went further. Archbishop Gianfranco Ravasi told Vatican Radio that Galileo "could become for some the ideal patron for a dialogue between science and faith."

He said Galileo's writings offered a "path" to explore how faith and reason were not incompatible.

The Rev. John Padberg, a church historian and the director of the Institute of Jesuit Sources at St. Louis University, said he suspected the Vatican's new emphasis on Galileo's faith came from the pope himself.

"Pope Benedict XVI is ardently convinced of the congruence of faith and reason, and he is concerned, especially in the present circumstances, of giving reason its due place in the whole scheme of things," he said.

While it is widely accepted that Galileo was a convinced Catholic, Padberg questioned whether he could ever be accepted as some kind of a poster child for the faith and reason debate. "That's going to be a long shot for an awful lot of people, on both sides, by the way," he said.
Benedict, a theologian, has made exploring the faith-reason relationship a key aspect of his papacy, and has directed his daily newspaper, L'Osservatore Romano, in particular, to take up the charge.

On Monday, the newspaper published a piece on the possibility of alien life on other planets as well as one on the popes who were "friendly" to astronomy.
Benedict clearly is: In his Sunday blessing, he noted that the Vatican itself has its own meridian, an obelisk in St. Peter's Square and that astronomy had long been used to signal prayer times for the faithful.

But the Vatican's embrace of Galileo only goes so far.

There were plans earlier this year to give Galileo a permanent place of honor in the Vatican to mark the anniversary of his telescope: a statue, to be located inside the Vatican gardens, donated by the Italian aerospace giant Finmeccanica SpA.

The plans were suspended after some Vatican officials voiced "problems" with the initiative, said Nicola Cabibbo, the president of the Pontifical Council for Science. He declined to elaborate.
Finmeccanica spokesman Roberto Alatri said the Galileo statue was just an idea that never got off the ground.

Italian news reports suggested the Vatican simply didn't want to draw so much permanent attention to the Galileo episode, which 400 years on, still rankles some.

"The dramatic clash between Galileo and some men of the Church left wounds that are still open today," the Vatican's chief astronomer, the Rev. Jose Funes, wrote recently in Osservatore. "The Church in some ways has recognized its errors.

"Maybe it could do better. One can always do better," he wrote.

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

The Pope' word today on IHT

Pope Benedict criticizes homosexual behavior
Reuters
Published: December 22, 2008

VATICAN CITY: Pope Benedict said Monday that saving humanity from homosexual or transsexual behaviour was just as important as saving the rainforest from destruction.
The Church "should also protect man from the destruction of himself. A sort of ecology of man is needed," the pontiff said in a holiday address to the Curia, the Vatican's central administration.
"The tropical forests do deserve our protection. But man, as a creature, does not deserve any less."

The Catholic Church teaches that while homosexuality is not sinful, homosexual acts are. It opposes gay marriage and, in October, a leading Vatican official called homosexuality "a deviation, an irregularity, a wound."

The pope said humanity needed to "listen to the language of creation" to understand the intended roles of man and woman. He compared behavior beyond traditional heterosexual relations as "a destruction of God's work."

He also defended the Church's right to "speak of human nature as man and woman, and ask that this order of creation be respected."