Ideally you see someone's true colors, find it unpleasant and make a beeline for the door.
Now how do you get rid of a lousy ex-friend who hasn't changed (still very much a taker & not shy about it) who's still hanging around the same social circles with you?
My Christian values says clearly to forgive, suck it up & love. But I just can't - not for a lousy person. It's not like charity, you just reach out and help. She's not needy, she's just a unrepentant taker, unabashedly so.
Telling her to her face what I feel about her would seem unkind. So what to do?
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