Thursday, August 02, 2012

Ever wondered if your style of driving scares the people in your car?

Here's a story of Matty.  His parents turned his child seat in the car to face forward cos he keeps throwing his toys onto the floor and then leaning half out of his seat to pick them up.  We taught him to always pick up his toys!

After turning his seat to face forward, his papa drives.  Matty stares at oncoming traffic and is fine.  Next trip out, his mommy drives.  Matty screams all the way to NTUC and on the return journey screams all the way until he pukes.

If any of you out there, reads this and have always wondered, "hmmm, is my driving style scary for the people in the backseat?", please approach us.  We can rent out our little tester.  For a small fee.

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Progress report - end July

Slowly by surely, house is taking shape.  More updates this week.  Renovation supposed to be finished by end of this week.  Next week wash and clean up the place.  Over national day can start to move in.

My dining lights

Glass wash basin in my room

Seashell toilet seat


Friday, July 27, 2012

My running schedule from Aug to end of 2012

My planned mileage beginning Aug to the end of the year.  Includes 4 races : Army half marathon, The North Face 50k trail, Newton 30k run and finally, Standard Chartered marathon.  Opportunistically, might add in Taroko marathon (or half) in mid Nov.

Depending on how close I hold to this plan, it's 580km on foot!  Yipes!

























































































































Thursday, July 26, 2012

I am happy today

Happy.

Got 2 pieces of good news this morning.

1. successfully recruited 2 new members to ACPT (my church ministry)

2. buyer's remorse without penalty.  I bought 2 mirrors Tue night and regret within the same night.  Asked for a refund yesterday and today they agreed to full refund.  It's the largest sized mirrors they had but still way smaller than the ones I have right now in the bathroom.  I fear removing the old ones will leave marks on the tiled bathroom walls that cannot be covered by the smaller new mirrors.

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Updates on the house

The big things are more or less settled.  Just a few outstanding big ones like
- shower fixtures.  The existing ones are a little grimy but they are Grohe branded.  I am reluctant to downgrade yet to replace with new Grohe would cost me an arm and a leg.  How fussy am I about this?  I can't decide. 
- colors for my walls (got a general idea, but unsure). 
- study room's writing desk and book shelf.  After talking to Michy over lunch just now, I think I will go see Ikea again, if I can tolerate their poor quality.  I do not want shelves that will sag in 2 years (esp when the shelf cost but $79).

Thus far the whole journey has been pretty pleasant.  I have been very blessed with a lot of help from Ian/Michy/Matty.  Best example was Michy and I drawing on a page of Sunday Times a few days ago, (I was reading the paper midway).  We drew out where to place my LED lights in the ceiling, argued, dragged Ian out of his bedroom as another opinion and he had genuine alarm on his face to discover our discussions are drawn all over page 7 of Sunday Times. 

Jo took me on toilet bowl 101 - warning me of pitfalls and even drawing out the dimensions of everything. 

Peter offered to help me spray paint my bike rack/clock, after he heard I was going to DIY.   Clearly had no faith in my DIY skills - probably rightly so.  I only just passed both items over to him last night and he's already done 1 coat on my bike rack - awesome job too. 

Francis came by and took my fingerboard down and he will later on remount it up on my new place.  This is after I had a go at it and found the screws impossibly tight.  He did it effortlessly, apparently you need to hold the board at an angle and keep shifting as you unscrew to regain traction.

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Do you eat when you're stressed?

It used to be that when stressed, I feel too sick to eat.  So I lose weight during bad times and gain during good.

Now that I'm older, when stressed, I eat more with the thought I need to fuel up to do what I need to, and when happy, well, I eat too.  So er.. regardless, I gain weight?

Sigh...  Humpty-Dumpty shape is a shape too right?

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I am too strong for my shoes?


I got back to the carpark last Wed after the ride/supper and found difficulty clipping out.  Somehow my cycling shoe was stuck - on closer look : gasp - the sole had come undone! 

I literally placed bike on the road and yanked the shoe out with both hands.

Simon/KahHoe came over in dismay when they saw a forlorn Cervelo lying on the road and picked up Speedier for me.  Simon said "Cervelos cannot lie on road!"...

These shoes were a birthday gift from my buddies and I took them out to wear after my tragic accident where my old Shimano shoes were ripped.  So I really love these Bontrager as they are filled with love, plus I really like the feel of these shoes compared to the Shimanos.  Very stiff and the power transfer very smooth.

Brought them to the cobbler at HV and the grizzly experienced cobbler insist it cannot be glued back as it will come undone the minute I try to clip out again.  So I took them back to Treknology.  Trek will get in touch with Bontrager then come back to me - hopefully I get a new pair out of them.

In the meantime, everyone has a suggestion for me.  Coach says Fizik shoes (there's a deal with IR for $300) but I don't really like the color (white) and they don't have my size anyways.  Felix/Jo insist on just 1 brand : SIDI.  In Jo's words, "just pay whatever price for SIDIs - you will not regret it", with Felix surfing to the CRC buy site for SIDIs and passing me the iPAD.  These 2 are a very interesting couple - very fun being around them.

I'm still in shock - am hoping to get a Bontrager replacement pair.  SIDI carbon shoes costs $350 and above!

Going to dinner with my sayang

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Collect the new home keys!

Very unceremoniously, I picked up the keys to the apartment from my lawyer's office.  BTW, they are complete imbeciles.  They actually made mistake with the math, against my favour?  And I pay them legal fees?  I need to go over the numbers again, no faith in them at all.

Ok, focus on the happy things! 

I took the keys and then... went to eat dinner with Matty!  I missed him since I was away in Taiwan!  Only finally stepped into my very own pad the next day.  Went straight after work and stood there feeling a little over-awed. 

Thankfully Michy joined me for a while and we both stood there discussing what I want done before Ah Teng came.  Yeah, my chosen renovation contractor is called Ah Teng.  AT - as Florence puts it, somehow making him sound cooler than he really is (think Phua Chu Kang in his 50s).

Trying to make it all fit in a tiny apartment takes some ingenuity.  Hopefully the contractor has some good ideas.

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Frequent traveler's etiquette

Not that I travel very often these days, but in the last 2 weeks I made 2 very different styles of travel.

Flying Singapore Airlines with a Krisflyer Gold member to Brisbane and then just a couple of days ago, budget travel via JetstarAsia.

The contrast is stark.

So when I read today's papers, I almost laughed out loud:
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/07/10/business/etiquette-for-seat-switching-on-the-road.html?ref=global-home

Yes actually, there is an unspoken rule about the whole business of travel.  Nicely put, etiquette.  And yes, those who do not travel often, don't get it and don't practise it which causes great grief to the rest of us.

I concur.  Do NOT,
- ask me to change seats with you (I chose that seat for a reason).  
- wave your arms in front of me.  Or invade my private space for ANY reason.
- attempt to make conversation with me.  What makes you think I want to talk to you?
- fidget in your seat with your elbows sticking out. 
- knock my neck cushion to wake me up because you need to use the bathroom. Can't you catch me when I am awake - which is the majority of the time. 
- occupy the entire armrest with your fat arms so much that you are literally leaning on my ribcage.
- remove your shoes and attempt to kill everyone on board with bio-warfare.

Wednesday, July 04, 2012

IMF says "growth recovery is tepid"

It's tepid?  A lukewarm cup of tea is tepid, how do you describe growth as tepid, and coming from IMF's managing director no less.

Tepid future in store.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-18693825

Tuesday, July 03, 2012

My first overseas marathon

July has come.  First July goal : Gold Coast marathon.  Status : check!  Next July goal : eat/drink weekend in Taipei.


My first overseas full marathon and I'm happy it all came together despite my lack of a focused build up in training.  If not for a morale-boosting 5 hour/39km run 3 weeks before race day, I had thought all is lost with the GC marathon.  Thanks to the coach for a great run route through Marina barrage.  Prior to that, I was barely running beyond 22km for LSDs.

It wasn't just my training plan that was messy, my packing was messy too (literally threw stuff in bag) and we changed flights plans repeatedly, up to the last minute, which touched some raw nerves.  All very unsettling indeed.

Thankfully once there, all was good.  Weather stayed fine and cool, made some new friends and it was nice chatting/eating and drinking copious amounts of wine before and after the race.  Traveling companion who is Krisflyer Gold is very nice too.  Queue - what queue?  And having free food in a lounge is the correct way to travel!

And we all had good races!  The baby flying elephant ran 2 very fast races - 10km and 21km the very next day.  Very good morale boosters for someone coming back from a back injury.

Coach's game plan was to go with the 3:30 pacers.  He stayed with them until the 36km mark when tendon/ligaments/muscles gave up on him.  I first saw him at the 36km mark, waved at him from the other side.  Next I saw him, he was sitting on a wall at the 40km mark, where he promptly jumped down and ran alongside me.  I assumed he had finished and came back for me.  I outran him and went through the finish line without waiting for him - cannot go through finish line twice right?  Wrong!  Apparently, his leg seized up around the 36km mark, he managed to hobble until he fell over totally immobile for half an hour.  No race medic went to his aid :(  He sat there until I came along.  Finished behind me despite a fantastic first 36km.  Fortunately no bodily damage other than disappointment.

The new running friends we made all clocked personal best times (PBs).  All is well!

My game plan was to go with the 4:30 pacers and try to stay with them as long as I can - no confidence in my training buildup.  So I started with the pacers but it was congested - too many people like to run within sight of the pacers.  Got tired of jostling one another, at 5km I ran ahead of the pacers, felt strong, kept going until I caught sight of the 4:15 pacers!  Then I stopped for a pee break,  and slowed a little to pace myself better.

Everyone was saying, you can score a PB because of the better weather on the Gold Coast, methinks you can score a PB only if you are well trained!  Cos I totally felt the strain, just that I kept pushing, focus on my striding....  By 28-32km, the wall hit me bad.  I tried to shake off the tiredness and focus on using my butts, but not enough training, even consuming my last gel (7th pack!) wasn't enough.  I slowed to a 7:51 pace, dragging along, waiting for the 4:30 pacers to overtake me.  And she did!  I tagged myself onto her, she said she was going for 4:30 gun time and that the other 4:30 pacer still behind would be chip time.  Her pace was sub-6.  I lasted 1.5km with her.  Weak.  Until I saw Alex at 40km.  Overall the race was very well organized but perhaps our own Singapore Marathon is better organized!  At least we have more medic coverage!

As I crossed the finish line, gun time read 4:27, my watch read 4:26, the official chip time 4:22!  I am blown away.

I cannot ask for more.  I am grateful for the many blessings Jesus!

You know, I even managed to attend mass on Surfer's Paradise!  The new-found friends I met on this trip are stanch Catholics.  Even better, there is a Catholic church within walking distance from our hotel (20mins walk) and there is a 6pm sunset mass! 4 of us attended mass.  It felt very nice indeed.

My race results and photos :



Thursday, June 28, 2012

Packing haphardly!

I usually formulate my pack list days ahead of the trip, build on over days and the day before leaving, just need to put stuff into bag.  It is a proven system for me.

Wasn't the case yesterday.  Although, the day wasn't all bad.  I had dinner with Matty.  I asked him if he was still coughing, he said "a little" (ok, it sure sounded like that!), I laughed and repeated the question, he looked me in the eye and said again, "a little" then smiled his toothy grin.  How can a kid like that not make you melt?

I got home at 10pm to pack and realize my pack list is in the office.  Brilliant Felicia!  Then I couldn't find my Ugg boots which I wanted to wear.  Tore the room apart, no Uggs.  Don't tell me I messed up in Taiwan?  I loved those boots - my uncle bought me those!  By then it was close to 1am and I was too depressed to continue packing.  Went to bed and resumed packing in the morning (while simultaneously on an 8am conference call).

In the process of tearing room apart, I found Speedy (my Polygon bike)'s normal pedals.  I knew I didn't get rid of them, just couldn't find them for the life of me!  Now who was it that was asking me for these?  Hmm...

All done now but I certainly don't feel assured I got it all! 

Too nervous so I canceled lunch with David Oh - even though he is rarely in Singapore, but I'm not in a good state of mind now!  I'll make it up to you David, somehow someday!  Did I pack sports bra?  Arghh.. need to check!

Going to Vivocity for lunch so I can grab some $2 gloves from Daiso, change AUD and buy a toothbrush that I forgot to pack. 

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Sleep deprived due to stupidity

I forgot to bring my computer power adapter home yesterday.  Found out at midnight.  Had to come to office at 6:55am to take the 7am conf call.  Unbelievably goon!

It's times like this I wish I was still in HP, where I had multiple computers at home and at work, power adapters everywhere and batteries too - different size/different weight for different purposes. 

Point of the matter - I cannot make this mistake again.  So sleepy now...

Meet 007 (the bike)












I'm like an agent now.  Sold off CY's bike for him.  Had to pick it up from his place even! -__-

007 was filthy, so I gave it a quick wash, lube it's parts so it doesn't rust and then put it up on Togoparts for sale.  Yeah, I named it 007 after all, I spent a couple of days and also some intimate time washing and taking care of it.

Within 2 days I sold 007.  Not too bad.  Had to however, field a zillion texts/calls, most of whom weren't very polite, some even asking for as low as $500 + delivery it to them!  Sold it to a friend of a friend of Peter's.  So Peter snitched the Catlike headlight & taillight and substituted it with an el cheapo lights as his commission as he had to deliver it to his friend's friend.

Bye 007, I hope you get a new owner who will ride you often and ride you well.

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Phobia - "travel guide syndrome"


As I make my appointments for my upcoming Taiwan trip (including my standard reservation for mala hotpot), some residual bad feelings comes back.  Plus trying to book a whale watching trip.  I got a little upset when I couldn't get a yes/no response from my run buddies.  I am scarred from my earlier trip in Feb when my travel companions gave me grief when things go wrong.  I can't control weather, if it's too cloudy to get a clear view, I feel bad too you know! 


I calmed down after I texted Zi and she assured me she loves whales.  Decided to just book the whale watching tour while there, no pressures on me that way.  Realize that my 2 run buddies aren't "blamey" characters too, but was too blinded by my 'tour-guide' phobia.

Saw the uncomplicated message on FB and thought, well, if only things can be that simple.  Life is not black nor white, it's shades of grey.  You can be simple and direct - if unrelated to other people.  Hmm...

Taiwan for the second time this year

Possibly a 3rd trip - business trip before the year is up.  Assuming I don't change jobs before then!  Haha.

This trip, I can feel it in my bones, will be much better than the Feb trip (where I was an unappreciated tour guide who got spat at instead of tipped at the end).  I'm usually happy in Taiwan - that was an exception.

For the upcoming trip, my friends have already made appointments/arrangements, so gonna catchup and have a great time.  Meeting my climbing buddies for some climbing then eat and get drunk here http://echo978.pixnet.net/blog/post/741848.  Staying at the 5-star W hotel for free - thanks to Elmo.  Overeat at the best mala hotpot in town with Vinny.  And gonna go get myself some excellent massages.  Only regret is not being able to make it to morning mass at St Bosco - I love the preacher there.  Will have to attend the earlier English mass at Da-an church instead.  My flight back is 1pm via Jetstar, a very unreliable airline, so it's best to be at the airport early.

I am so looking forward to this trip.

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Playing games

I really dislike it when people play games.  Like knowing what presses a persons buttons, then you go deliberately do that, just to illicit a reaction.  I really hate that.  It's juvenile and totally un-Christian living - ie it is not a gesture of love.

Yes, I am direct.  I choose to be direct because I hate it when people play games with me.

If you must play games, go do it to someone else please.

35degrees heat = grouchy people?

I am convinced there is a direct relationship of blazing hot temperatures and people going ballistic.

My mom, Peter, now this awful viral video clip of 2 women fighting in our MRT.  A younger lady had given up her priority seat to an older woman, who then instead of saying thank you for the seat, goes on to accuse her of staring.  Hmm... What gives?  Totally unprovoked attack considering she was given a seat!  It's pent up resentment that just came to a boil cos certainly staring doesn't warrant a nuclear meltdown!

And the pent up resentment is a result of the last few weeks of awfully hot weather!  Grumpy old lady just let it all built til melting point.

The weather bureau says maximum of 33 degrees in Singapore.  I wonder where they measure that.  Under the table of their aircon offices?  My car reads 37degrees some afternoons.  Now I know Garin doubts Roar's temperature reading - I disagree cos on mornings that Roar registers 27degrees, it feels exactly that.

Oh I can't wait for winter.... Yes, a holiday is in order, Australia here I come!


As a counselor once told me, never let your emotions build.  Let it go, surrender to Him.  So oommm... take it all Jesus!

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

HP

I seriously have a problem with letting go.  (Ok those who know me are probably slapping their foreheads with a "you don't say!" expression on their faces).

I had lunch twice this week with HP folks - well, I consider them my friends :) and even though I hear the horror stories from the ongoing restructurings, a part of my heart still beats faster whenever someone says, oh there're vacancices, you want to apply?

It seems there is no perfect job, no perfect environment.  The question is, are you still learning/growing where you are now and, more importantly, where is He leading you?  I'm not sure I have the answer to either question, I'm not even sure of my own feelings, but I know I can lean on Him.

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

The smart home concept

My phone is smart, the LED TV I just purchased is smart, but yet "smartness" in the home is so slow to catch up.  In tropical Singapore, there's only so much smarts you can enable your devices.  You can turn on/off any appliance : lights, TV, portable fan, air-conditioning, oven... But it's not really all that life and death : is it? 

Essentially we sell lighting (controlled via an app on Android/IOS) and smart meters (gas and electricity). 

There's so much more that can be "made smart", question is, technology isn't quite there yet.  First and foremost, we need 1 single standard : is it wifi or Zigbee?  All the vendors in the smart home/green home needs to consolidate on 1 standard.
http://phys.org/news/2012-04-smartphone-smart-home.html

When a baby's sick

Matty is sick.  All week.  Someone gave him a bug that is causing fever and a running nose.  The runny nose in turn causes phlegm buildup in the throat which causes coughing.  Not unlike what I struggled with earlier last month.  I suspect his mother is the cause of all our infections!

I was over last night for dinner.  Matty went to bed at 8:45pm as usual, and while Michy fed him his pre-bed time bottle, we sat down to watch some tv.  Then we heard her yell for us - she usually just presses the baby monitor to beep for us (to not wake the baby) : Matty had coughed so hard, he puked all over her.  She managed to clean him up while I held the naked boy.  Then I took him to his parents room, and we both sat on the bed to watch comforting Sesame Street youtube videos on the iPad while the maid cleaned his room.  Before I knew it, he puked everything else he had in him all over his parents' bed.  Opps.  My bad.  Maid comes over to strip the sheets while Matty goes back to the shower.

You hear about how parents moan about their kids being sick.  It's a first time for me.  While it's hard to see the little guy cough so hard to expel the sticky phlegm, it also causes total upheaval in the house!  Kids are a lot of work.  Indeed.

Monday, June 18, 2012

Renovation diary - report 1

A very kind friend led me in her car all the way from Yishun into the car park in Bendemeer road for Audio House.  Then she stepped out of the car, and pointed to me in case I was stupid enough to miss the front door. She's right.  Audio House is cheaper than all the others plus they have price protection until date of delivery.  So I got most of the electronics I need.  


Then I swung over to Calligaris and bought the dining table & chairs I liked so much. 

After weeks of looking at electronics/furniture shops, I am glad this phase is settled.  Next phase - lights & toilet stuff but need to wait til I get the keys to the house next.

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Learning about the saints

I wonder why I never bothered much, but this current module on the Saints has been quite enlightening.


“And it is the Lord, it is Jesus, Who is my judge. Therefore I will try always to think leniently of others, that He may judge me leniently, or rather not at all, since He says: "Judge not, and ye shall not be judged.”― Thérèse de Lisieux, Story of a Soul: The Autobiography of St. Therese of Lisieux

 I've ordered her book, think it'll be a great read.

Back on the saddle

My last ride was last month - I had somehow missed 4 rides in a row due to either rain or other reasons. 

I was nervous, thought I'd accompany the Ele as sweeper.  But somehow that didn't happen.

I had started off in the front of the group, but everyone else started easy last night, with the group 1 peloton only roaring by along Changi Coastal road.  Someone yelled my name, I inserted myself into the space created for 3 mins then got dropped unceremoniously.

Soon, a sad ragged group 2 formed consisting of similar wannabes who jumped on the train then got spat out.  Chugged along slowly until I chanced upon Shinghui/Kahhoe and Mr Anderson.  Inserted myself behind this little pack and drafted at 35-39km/h all the way to Shell. 

At Shell, Peter and I offered to be sweeper for the return leg and McGyver Kelvin helped us along too.  With 3 of us, we could take turns to stay as last man, while the other 2 take a short distance speed race.  It actually got pretty fun.  Shoot off until you can't, u-turn, pump the legs, u-turn back to the last guy, tag off  with a "谢谢,换你来!".  Still kept to R&R's motto of "safety and fun"!

Pity I'll be missing more rides in the upcoming weeks with some travels and my house renovations.  I will be back yet!

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Work? What's that?

A cycling friend called me a moment ago...

K - are you cycling later?
me - yes
K - meet you there now?
me - K, it's only 3:30pm!
K - I'm bored ma!
me - K, I have to work for a living u know...
K - ok then, I'll go to Sentosa
me - stop taunting me!
K - ok I rephrase, see you later!
me - depressed and demoralized, I return to my desk.

I need to live a 太太lifestyle - just taught Chris L from Houston that term ironically.

Slides

 Slide 1 - for Matty.  It's huge and the Toys R Us folks helped me carry to the car.











Slide 2 - 2 curry puffs worth 1000 calories.  My slide into obesity.  But seriously, the best curry puff in Singapore!  From Serangoon Gardens market.

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Singpost opportunity

I have been going to the Ghim Moh post office of late - to pick up my internet purchases.  Often I buy online simply because I'm too lazy to physically shop but have lots of time during conference calls and work hours to sit and surf online.

It struck me that Singpost who delivers most online packages are privy to all that information of who's buying what, the value of the purchases (declared for tax purposes) and even our personal info (our names, mobile phone no., sometimes our IC no. even).  If they are smart enough, that information is worth billions.  That's the value of Google - business analytics. 

So I googled Singpost with my gem of an idea and they hired this ex-Mckinsey guy to head this up a year and a half ago. http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/singaporebusinessnews/view/1107354/1/.html.
Early last year they were hiring business analytics managers http://www.jobstreet.com.sg/jobs/2011/1/default/20/2457610.htm?fr=J.   Well, guess I am at least 1.5 years behind the curve.

Monday, June 11, 2012

In search of the perfect running gait

Ironically, I'm blogging with a backache from yesterday's long run - as with every run longer than 10km.

Had my second session with my physiotherapist and I came in running attire.  She video-ed my run and proclaims my gait ok although I slant slightly to the right side hence the ache.  Also, it shows clearly that I am a heel striker, not forefoot - I thought I was midfoot striker the whole time!

I practised forefoot running with her on the treadmill - this certainly needs work.  I wondered about changing my gait for the Gold Coast mara, but changed my mind after reading this :
http://www.sportsscientists.com/2008/04/running-technique-footstrike.html

Notably this line from that study : if there is one thing you change in your running, don't focus on your footstrike, but rather on WHERE your feet land relative to your body.  



I'll keep working on utilizing more of my butt muscles for a more complete stride for now.  But won't risk injury changing my foot strike position.  Besides, I just want to be able to enjoy my first overseas marathon on the Gold Coast and catch up with Chris Bennetts after the run!

Thank God for my car

I thank God for my car.  I love you Roar.  I realize how much independence and flexibility Roar has brought.  On a whim, I can check out a furniture shop over my lunch hour.  I can fly to Simei and back to work, comfortably and fast. 

Friday, June 08, 2012

The Elixir of Youth

This is 拉拉, Ashley's son.  He was 30 until he stumbled onto this secret.  Today he looks like he's 8mos old.

Ok ok, he IS 8mos old, how cute is this!

Happiness

Just heard that Emily Wang is marrying Joe from the lab, both of them my ex-colleagues from the HP Taiwan team.  Both incredibly nice people.  Joe was the same guy who helped me pry my hammerhead shark key ring back into place.  When I left Taiwan, they were having problems and Emily had moved out in a desperate bid to improve their relationship, I passed them literally most stuff from my house - from ironing board, laundry hanger to plates/forks/spoons.  She just message me to say they are still using my stuff happily and the wedding is in September.  I am really glad they made it work, cos I really liked them both.  Very sincere and genuinely nice folks who deserve one another.


Over the climb last night, Jo - in between groaning and huffing up the walls, was telling me about the elephant's new-found love and how she's drowning in happiness right now.  It is very heartwarming to hear that.

Amen to the Lord's faithfulness!

Sidenote : Joe used to manage our product samples, and I really miss those days when I'd go to Joe and draw my marketing sample NBs.  I'm bitching because today I have a lousy barely working, heavy, slow & sucky Dell NB.  Gimme a new NB now!

Wednesday, June 06, 2012

July come quickly!

Looking forward to July :
Jul 1 - Gold Coast marathon
Jul 7 - Rae's wedding in Taiwan
Jul 9 - New home is formally mine

July cannot come quicker!

Looking at furniture and electronics

I browsed Furniture Mall last night and while I am thankful there are lots of furniture shops around, my choices are narrowed due to
- I want it simple, not ching chong!  Read = I like the Italian designs but they are so expensive!
- I prefer to buy something that would last.  Again, as the Danish owner of Danish Designs put it, "With furniture, you get what you pay for".  That pure glass table top is nice, but the sharp edges might be painful if you stub your toe against the legs, and if there's going to be Matty running around...

And browsed IMM just now over lunch hour, without any success.  Conclusion, I still like the Italian table and have no clue with to do with chairs.  Headache!  Will see Lush-lush over the weekend and hopefully they have something I like there.

And I have yet to start looking at lights.  So much to do and so little time!  I am buying this horsey lamp for the living room.  And then there is no room for anything else so I will sit on the horse in place of a sofa / dining table etc.

Monday, June 04, 2012

Tired!

I am so tired!  I spent the whole weekend looking at chairs/dining sets/sofa... Even though I engaged I&M's help since they have a better eye and also help me negotiate price better (I just saved $300+ because Michy pressed the ah beng salesguy really hard), but the I&M package comes with Matty and while he's very cute, but you really need to watch the busy QC engineer.  He walks all over the shop (and I mean ALL OVER), pulling price tags off furniture, checking out stuff by tugging at them (Matty watch out for that huge statue!)... Utter mayhem.

At the end of every visit in a store, we forcibly yank all the price tags out of Matty's hands and give it back apologetically to the salesman over Matty's loud protests.  Salesman then has to figure out which tag came from which furniture piece... probably muttering unmentionables about parents who can't control their kids...

And I am sleep-deprived from waking up early for yesterday's re-race (SIS Age Group) and sore because coach wanted to push me to faster times so we ran at sub 6 pace all the way (Runkeeper says average pace 5:27) and I am still short of 20km mileage for last week.  My head is buzzing over which chairs to choose, and which contractor to engage.  And I have a meeting with a headhunter in town in an hour.  Tired!

Thursday, May 31, 2012

Changi Sports Medical Center

I have always had a nagging ache in my lower back - particularly on the right side.  It's due to poor posture, I don't hold myself upright enough and I tend to sit on the edge of the chair and lean forward at the screen while at work. 

Since I upped my running mileage significantly since 2011, the ache has also increased in intensity, to the point when it hurts during a run instead of after.  Or maybe I worsened the injury supporting a tottering Matty, thank goodness he can now walk on his own.  I&M both go to this physiotherapist at the sports clinic and highly recommended her. 

After delaying for months, I finally made an appointment.  Drove over and realized it occupies a whole wing of Changi Hospital - the Changi sports medical center.  And within it, the Musculoskeletal Clinic.  I am impressed!

The physiotherapist is also a marathoner.  She quickly identifies the issue.  My running gait is incomplete and I lack balance, especially with my right leg.  Hence the pain in my lower back.  Next session with her, I need to bring my runners and we'll do some work on the treadmill.

I am truly impressed with Singapore.  This is a cool country indeed.  Now all we lack are cycling lanes on our roads and I'm never leaving this place again.

RIP Jude Tan

C was telling us about poor Jude Tan who was killed by a sleepy driver while cycling along Changi Coastal Road last Saturday.

He did not do anything wrong.  He was the last guy (sweeper) in a group of cyclists.  It was 10:30am on a Saturday (broad daylight) along a road hugely popular with cyclists (awareness of the presence of cyclists).  A sleepy van driver lost control, mounted a curb and then ran Jude down.  C cycled past shortly after the accident happened and saw the horrific accident scene.  The impact was so great, his bicycle parts were strewn all over the entire road (all 4 lanes).  He was just 25.

If you are sleepy and at the wheel, please, do the world a favor, pull over and take a short power nap.  That 15mins could mean the difference between life and death.
http://www.asiaone.com/Motoring/News/Story/A1Story20120531-349582.html

A sleepy driver could mow down a person regardless whether you are walking/running/riding a bicycle/driving along in a car.  If he was going to lose control and plow into your path, you would still get hit.

May God receive you warmly into heaven.  May your family be comforted at this time.  RIP Jude Tan.

I&M's Marantz hifi player

I almost typed WIFI player - occupational hazards!

Matty (aka the QC engineer) has been busy. 

Fortunately his parent's Marantz hifi player got fixed for $110.

Actually it's $115 ($55 parts and $60 labour) but I had only $110 in cash and they don't accept cards of any sort.  And I look so poor, they waived off the $5. 

I am liking the fact that I get small discounts here and there...  Thank you God!

人好复杂呀!

Once again I learn how friggin huge the male ego is.  Must it always be so complicated?  It's just running, sheesh...

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Got my wheels back again...

Ok Roar is back.  He's back to his original length too.  I also took the opportunity to replace the broken remote control key / car alarm system so the car is protected again.   Went to this place at Turf City called Newton Keys - efficiently done and they gave me a small discount cos I look and feel poor! 

Only thing missing is a spare tyre cover - broke into multiple pieces from being smashed into the wall -__-  Definitely not going to pay $300 for a new cover.  Will look to buy a canvas cover for the spare wheel since it will cost a fraction of the hard cover cost.

In the meantime, the fumes from the new paint (on Roar's back door) is killing me... cough cough.

I am just glad the car is back safe.  Amen.

Interesting take on Christmas from a FB perspective

Monday, May 28, 2012

Sundown Marathon

On the aftermath of a lingering flu, crashing my car into a wall, running around getting car fixed and checking out furniture/electronics plus a kiddy party lunch on Saturday... I certainly didn't feel in good shape mentally.  I didn't set myself any targets, since I still had my heart on the Gold Coast marathon in July.

Thankfully, Peter had offered to drive this time and we went early found free parking space, rested at the lobby of the Park Royal hotel until Alex, Francis and a friend of Peter's showed up, then walked casually to the start line.

Francis insisted on a slower pen, so the 4 of us started at the 2:30 after wishing Alex good luck and to be careful.  

This is how it felt : I ran fast first 10k then fought the pain as I slowed down for the second 10k.  In reality, it was pretty much even for both splits.  Surprising.

I'm working on 2 things on my run
1.  my running gait - the physiotherapist said I wasn't utilizing my butt muscles when I run.  That my stride is incomplete, it doesn't extend to the butt muscles. 
2. learn to drink on the go with sputtering... Right now, I just stand there and drink 2 cups each time. 

I am grateful to the good Lord that
- got the Asics deal.  The Sky Speed 2 is lighter and flat - so it encourages mid-foot landings more than the typical heel to ball rolling pattern.
- the downpour only started after I finished the run.  The winds really picked up during the rain - had to run/walk back to the car.  We were soaked to the skin and blasted by the winds!  I was so cold, we switched the heater on in the car (I'm serious!). 

Big pedal stop, small pedal go. Get it right!

Reversed Roar into the wall Friday night.  And no, I wasn't drunk!  It was late, after our debrief at St Bern's  from CaFE.  Perhaps I was distracted or tired or something... But I meant to reverse the car a little, not so much til I am IN the wall.

Roar is a little shorter now, the back door is dented in.  The rear spare tyre cover broke into pieces and the rear windshield shattered spectacularly into a billion pieces.

Damage - $1100.

Certainly not a good time as I am looking at buying furniture and stuff... Sigh.  So now I am car-less and walking around with very tight calves.  Ouch ouch and more ouch.  This is not good *shake head*

Monday, May 21, 2012

Weekend of furniture oogling

 Note the choice of words, oogling.  I remember a few years ago when I accompanied I&M on a few furniture store visits as they were preparing to move into their new house, utterly horrified at the type of prices they were talking about.  I figured, yuppies with expensive tastes.  Now, I understand.  A decent dining table is perhaps $2000.  Yes!  At least something that won't be collapsing and requiring a re-purchase in 2 years.  Dining chairs.  Chairs... pfffttt, you think right?  Maybe $20-50 a piece?  Try $300-400 a piece.  *faint*  Bringing up this conversation to I&M is all about 'I told you so!'.  So maybe the yuppies' idea of Italian tables and chairs for the same price as Malaysian made ones - all of which aren't cheap incidentally, is good after all.

I think I have dining table down.  Chairs is a problem as I would like it to match the sofa, while not costing me an arm and a leg at the same time.  So should it be plastic (very in today), leather or, upholstery (softest on my butts)?
 


And I need 5 chairs.  Because Matty is going to need a seat too.  He's growing so fast, so boy looking now eh?

I have been looking around over weekends.  So it's a good start.  Even though the Great Singapore Sale has not yet begun, everyone is doing pre-GSS sales.  Good for me, I can start browsing early.  There's so much to acquire.  And I can't wait.

I signed up for the Newton 30km run this morning after I found out the starting point is East Coast Park.  Hey, by October, I'll be walking to the start line!  Thank you God!

Thursday, May 17, 2012

The accident everyone's talking about

I was eating lunch at NUS and overheard the next table of presumably all foreigners talking about the recent Ferrari crashing into a taxi at high speeds.  They sounded like a mix of Indian & Chinese nationals.  While they were reasonably rational, it still irk me when they was saying Singaporeans are overreacting.  Undoubtedly the reckless driver paid with his life, but he also took 2 innocent people with him - the taxi driver and the passenger in the taxi.  And you know, if these foreigners are unhappy with how they are "treated" here, they can jolly well go home.  Go back to India and China - clearly 3rd world countries.  Obviously the foreigners are here because Singapore is a better place to live!  So acknowledge that fact and be gracious about it.  Most of all - assimilate!  Obeying our laws, respecting the citizens are basic first steps.  And for the Chinese nationals here, speak English!

I decided to watch the video and I am just horrified.  The taxi didn't stand a chance at all.

Point in note to self - it's ok to stop beyond the white line at the junction but never be first to drive off. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=8JfAaOABk4g

I think I need a new car alarm system

So my car remote control failed the other day after Matty was busy pressing the buttons. 

I thought it was a simple matter of replacing the key fob.  So I went to this place called Soxxi and the guy there said, would you care for the $380 package (with 2 key fobs) or the $180 package (with 1 horrendous looking key).  I almost fainted.  Thankfully this was before lunch so I had nothing to puke out.

-__-

At this rate, I should drive a tank.  The QC engineer has been busy.

Back to running

The break last week from running was a good idea.  Back this week with an 8km run last night and it felt good - had to slow myself down to wait for Peter and also not to over-exert myself before the cycle.  Thankfully so because the head wind was awful! 

This Sunday's LSD will be torturous, 32km.  And Alex wants to run in the night to acclimatize to the upcoming Sundown Marathon.  So we will be doing battle in the dark along ECP this Sunday.  Wonderful...

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Matty, me and the iPhone

Taking turns to play with the phone.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Diving in Pulau Redang

Took 2 days off for an extended dive weekend in Pulau Redang.  My last trip there was in 2006 - before I left for Taiwan.  I must say, the diving scene in Malaysia is so different now.  Redang I recall was fantastic diving.  We have changed the environment, for the worse for sure.

Philip, Jasmine & I had a great weekend.  Everyone was caring, considerate, amiable and quick to laugh.  Water visibility unfortunately was not good due to thermoclines, and we lost Jasmine one dive when she was slow to descend.  Everyone else had descended to 2 huge Jenkins rays on the seabed, got distracted and didn't look out for her.  Dive-master went back for her, couldn't find her and the entire group had to ascend.  After that, we took care to descend at the same rate as her to not risk poor visibility.

My sinuses held up with antibiotics and lots of cold tablets.  All is good, except Philip now has the flu - they blame me. -_-

Jasmine celebrates her 100th dive, we tried unsuccessfully to dunk her into the water, but she's too heavy!  Opps!

I have but 1 big grouse, at the risk of sounding xenophobic - on the return bus trip, save for the 3 of us, it was all China people, all of us returning to Singapore.   Is Singapore populated by people of China?  They were inconsiderate, always late back to the bus perhaps cos they don't understand/speak English. 




More pix on my Flickr : http://www.flickr.com/photos/8062670@N07/sets/72157629726014590/

Monday, May 14, 2012

Worlds rudest nations for travelers

http://sg.travel.yahoo.com/inspirations/535-the-worlds-rudest-nations-for-travelers

Funny that I was just talking to some friends about this over the weekend.  Specifically on France too!  Even though I didn't get a negative experience on my 2 trips to France (guess I got lucky) and I have not been to Russia (may never go!) and I personally find Londoners very friendly.  Hmm.. I guess the list is true for France - lots of stories of their unwillingness to help tourists out.

5 tips for traveling with your mother

http://travel.nytimes.com/2012/05/13/travel/5-tips-for-traveling-with-your-mother.html

I almost fell out of chair laughing (bitter laughter) simply cos this is so far from what I have.  Ok, I need to be less cynical about my mother-daughter relationship.  If I had the same complaints as this author, I'd feel so blessed.

Wednesday, May 09, 2012

Holiday! Diving in Redang Island

This comes at an opportune time.  I need a mental break before I embark on project "get a new house".

Plus this stupid flu just won't quit! Previous Sunday I was dizzy at the 20km mark, last Sunday I couldn't breathe at the 2km mark & had to walk 12km back.  My marathon training is in shambles.  Perhaps a break will do the trick. 

Saw the doc again today to get more cold tablets and she was very disapproving - made me sign against my records that she advises against diving -__- 
Says the dizziness/breathlessness is caused by poor oxygenation because of my infected sinuses and I should be resting, not diving as it will further strain my sinuses.  I got round 3 of antibiotics plus cold tablets to take to Redang.  Should be good.  If I fail to equalize, I suppose I'll just abort and laze on the beach.

I'm all packed and ready to go.  The bus departs at 9pm and then it is long weekend here I come, ready or not!

Thursday, May 03, 2012

Robinsons Private Sale Part Deux

Went back to the Robinsons sale over lunch today (day 3 of a 3 day sale), and bought a rice cooker which was a good deal and since I'm there, grabbed some dinner placemats and kitchen utensils. 

Michelle was really nice to meet me there, with Matty.  He was a good kid today, stayed in his baby carrier while we shopped quickly.  Then went to MacDonalds for a quick bite.  He sat there and ate fries and baby biscuits.

Then I zipped back to work.  What a pleasant lunch.

Wednesday, May 02, 2012

Matty's self portrait

We were eating lunch at Swensons and Matty was playing with my phone.  He managed to take his own photo...

My tiring Labor day holiday

Labor day yesterday turned out to be truly laborious.  Had the free run SIS Age Group 10km run in the morning.  It was in part road, and in part through a muddy field and cos it has been raining, it was just ploughing thru ankle deep mud... argh.  And cos it's a race, you keep running, mud and all!  As I dragged my feet up yet another slope I was greeted by what appeared to be the finish?  Huh?  Alex who very gallantly ran/waited with me, went to find out why we stopped at 8.77km (thanks Runkeeper!).  Apparently the race marshals mis-directed the bulk of the runners.  We were short of an extra 1.3km loop.   The race director apologized and a re-race will be held at Macritchie soon.  Oh well, I run there anyways.

Met up with Jo and the 3 of us had ampang yongtauhoo in Sembawang.  Jo ate a lot.

Then we went to climb at Yishun.  After a 2 week hiatus from climbing, my forearms were pumped by climb 1!  I was belaying Jo and it started to rain, I looked around, saw the harbinger of rain - TP, and thought to myself, oh, no wonder it's raining. It was a short-lived rain and the climbers resumed, but Jo and I left.  Too pumped.

Next stop - the Robinsons private sale.  Thankfully I had Ian/Michy/Matty along for the fun. It was crowded to say the least.  I bought bowls, plates, forks/spoons, some bath towels & a $2.4k Simmons mattress.  Shopping for mattresses was a hilarious affair.  Matty loves to roll around on beds.  He just does!  So we'd be testing a mattress and there'll be a baby sprawled & rolling all over it as well.  Decided on the Simmons eventually over the King Koil even though the King Koil felt absolutely decadent - flop on it and sink in a few cms!  I was thinking a little firmer might be better for my aging spine.  By this time, Matty has rolled onto quite a few other mattresses, drooled on every one of them - we constantly need to watch the little guy.   Michelle was quick to discreetly flip the pillows with drool over to hide the wet marks. Ah, mothers.

This sale (up to 40%) was good, but the maddening crowds was hard, had a headache by the time we left.  In any case, I'll slowly acquire everything I need for the house so I can enjoy the process.  There's the Great Singapore Sale (GSS) still to come, so I should be able to get good bargains later.